Pride and Prejudice and the Three Movements in Every Love Story

There are already so many entries into our Show Off Writing Contest: The Love Story Edition. Congratulations to all you who have entered. If you haven't, you still have a few days to fin­ish your story. Maybe today's topic will help!

Pride and Prejudice Elizabeth Bennett and Mr. DarcyOkay here's the story, boy meets girl. They have a nice, semi-awkward chat. Then, boy does some­thing to offend girl, and girl begins to hate boy. Boy falls in love with girl, not know­ing she hates him. Girl tells boy she hates him. Boy hates girl. Finally, both boy and girl are so over­come by each other they get over their stub­born­ness and fall in love.

Pop Quiz: What story am I refer­ring to?

You prob­a­bly thought I was talk­ing about Pride and Prejudice, since I men­tioned it in the title. However, no, I was actu­ally talk­ing about the plot from the movie Hitch. Or was it The Proposal. Nope, it was The Scarlett Pimpernel. Could it have been Gone with the Wind? Or Jane Eyre? Or A Knight's Tale? Or Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind?

The Three Movements in (Nearly) Every Love Story

The truth is, the story above fits all of these sto­ries because most love sto­ries lie are part of a kind of "story arche­type" that can be sum­ma­rized in three movements:

  1. Boy and Girl like each other.
  2. Boy and Girl hate each other.
  3. Boy and Girl love each other.

The amaz­ing thing is that this mir­rors every "Buddy Story" ever writ­ten. Are Rain Man or Dumb and Dumber or Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid so dif­fer­ent? They're all about friends who have a falling out, only to real­ize they can't live with­out each other. According to Blake Snyder, author of the bril­liant screen­writ­ing book Save the Cat, the buddy story and the love story are the same basic story.

Here's what Blake Snyder, says about the Buddy / Love Story:

At first the "bud­dies" hate each other. (Where would they have to go if they didn't?) But their adven­ture together brings out the fact that they need each other; they are, in essence, incom­plete halves of a whole. And real­iz­ing this leads to even more con­flict. Who can tol­er­ate need­ing any­body?

The Key to Getting the Love Story Right

The most impor­tant part of this type of story is that at some point the lovers must sep­a­rate and try to live with­out each other.

Think through some of the movies or nov­els you've read that fall into this story arche­type. This period of sep­a­ra­tion hap­pened in Romeo and Juliet, in Tristan and Isolde, and of course, in Pride and Prejudice. They must sep­a­rate so they can real­ize that as dif­fi­cult as it is to live together, it's impos­si­ble to live apart.

As Elizabeth Bennett says in the BBC film, "I know I shall prob­a­bly never see him again, but I can­not bear to think that he is alive in the world and think­ing ill of me."

PRACTICE

Write about a scene dur­ing this period of sep­a­ra­tion. The pro­tag­o­nist has already left the love of his or her life, and is slowly com­ing to the real­iza­tion that liv­ing apart from them is impossible.

Write for fif­teen min­utes. When you're fin­ished, post your prac­tice in the comments.

And if you post, make sure to com­ment on a few others.

About the Author

Joe Bunting

Joe is a ghostwriter, editor, and an aspiring fiction author. He writes and edits books that change lives. Follow him on Facebook and Twitter.

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  • http://www.littlegirltravels.com/ Unisse Chua

    Hannah just returned from her two-week vaca­tion after her divorce case was finally fin­ished. She had the beau­ti­ful pent­house apart­ment all to her­self now and she didn't have to worry about see­ing beer cans scat­tred all over the liv­ing room table. Nor did she have to clean up after all the mess Rick and his friends left after watch­ing games all night long.

    She smiled as she walked towards the floor-to-ceiling glass win­dows and opened the cur­tains to reveal the beau­ti­ful sun set­ting. She's always loved sun­sets. It was always beau­ti­ful to her because almost every­thing good that hap­pened to her had always been dur­ing a sunset.

    The day she got her first kiss was dur­ing her spring break at the beach. The sun was set­ting when Rick had pulled her away from their friends to a more secret spot. Her wed­ding was also held just as the sun was set­ting, like she had wanted. It was the most won­der­ful day of her life — stand­ing in front of all her friends and fac­ing the man she thought she would be spend­ing the rest of her life with.

    As the sky changed from a deep orange to night blue, Hannah turned her back on the sky and started to unpack.

    That was when she saw a small bot­tle, filled with sand. Hannah started to cry and some­where between her sobs, she whis­pered the name of the per­son she knew she would miss the most.

  • Eric

    Tyler turned left into the steeply descend­ing side street and walked on towards his house, sud­denly painfully aware of how his descent into this road mir­rored that sink­ing feel­ing his emo­tions were heav­ing with after the break-up he had just ini­ti­ated with his girl­friend. It was as if he had just woken up from the numb daze that had clouded the last hour of his walk home. The busy sounds, sights and smells of the oth­er­wise colour­ful route he had taken had passed by him, never reg­is­ter­ing in his senses. His last mem­ory: that of watch­ing Claire stand­ing up from where they had been sit­ting at their favourite ter­race, the strain of hold­ing back her tears clearly show­ing in her red­den­ing eyes and the ten­sion spread­ing around her mouth. She had picked up her hand­bag and turned around with the same ease with which she had arrived not a quar­ter of an hour ear­lier. He had watched her walk off into the bustling mar­ket until the crowd had swal­lowed her com­pletely, as if con­fis­cat­ing her slen­der frag­ile beauty from the man to whom she had given her heart so uncon­di­tion­ally seven weeks ear­lier.
    As he tor­mented him­self by replay­ing this mem­ory over and over again, he started to ques­tion why he had decided to destroy their union in the first place. Yesterday, it had all seemed so log­i­cal in his cold and effi­cient rea­son­ing. He wasn’t yet ready to set­tle down (cliché num­ber one). He felt that he still wanted to meet other women (cliché num­ber two). The thought of chil­dren enter­ing his oth­er­wise sim­ple life filled him with dread (and there was num­ber three).
    He reached his house and walked up the small steps to his front door, stung by the sud­den aware­ness of being alone, truly alone. Not the phys­i­cal lone­li­ness of not hav­ing her at his side, but that aching over­whelm­ing lone­li­ness that now impris­oned his heart. He turned the key in its slot and won­dered, for the first time in a whole week, whether this was really what he wanted. He had made his choice, but it now seemed so petty and imma­ture. He had bit­ten the bul­let to get what he wanted and now he no longer wanted it. He shut the door behind him and leaned back against it. He closed his eyes and all he could see were her eyes, how they drowned in his gaze. And her lips, when she would sing. How they danced and mes­mer­ized him every time he had looked at her.
    The pain of this vision threw him off-center and his legs buck­led. He fell to the floor. Then he realised his mis­take. It was never his mind to which he should have lis­tened. It should have been his heart. He should have let it sing.
    Fighting back a wave of tears, he took out his phone and speed-dialed her number.

  • alba 17

    Every day he went to the library. He pulled books off the shelf, one by one, their spines heavy in his palm, the slick tex­ture of plas­tic or the nubby sur­face of cloth com­fort­ing and famil­iar. The num­bers on the bind­ing told him where they went and how to cat­e­go­rize them and his world nar­rowed to that small bit of infor­ma­tion. Black and white; sim­ple; every­thing in its place.

    He tried to ignore the gap­ing hole that threat­ened to swal­low him when­ever his mind wan­dered away from its imme­di­ate task. She hov­ered there in his con­scious­ness, beyond the periph­ery, like a bird flit­ting just out­side of view.

    She'd shut him down good, hadn't she, and for the last time. He'd wrenched his eyes from hers and turned away, every limb weighed down like it was encased in con­crete. He wasn't going to try any more. It wasn't worth the pain.

    That's what he'd thought, any­way. Until the day he ran into her sis­ter at the farm­ers market.

    "Oh hello," she said, jug­gling two but­ter­nut squashes. He'd seen her at the next stall over, while he was look­ing over the let­tuce, and had imme­di­ately looked away, heart pound­ing. She looked so much like Elena.

    "Hi," he said, won­der­ing why the farmer was tak­ing so damn long mak­ing change.

    "Making rata­touille?" she said, glanc­ing over his egg­plant, zuc­chini and tomatoes.

    "Yep." He tapped his foot.

    Somehow she man­aged to catch his eye despite his entire being will­ing her to go away. She frowned, then shifted her gaze.

    "You should call Elena, you know." Her brown eyes, so like Elena's, met his again.

    He sighed. "Why?"

    "I think she misses you." Something in her face told him she was try­ing to say more than that. A cog fell into place; every­thing was sud­denly in sharper focus.

    She missed him. He felt like his chest was melting.

    "You still have her num­ber, don't you?"

    "Of course." Not that he needed it. He'd never for­get it.

    He was finally at the head of line and the farmer told him what he owed. He scram­bled for the money and stashed the veg­eta­bles in his bag before say­ing good­bye to Elena's sis­ter, his mind whirling.

    It was only later, as he was chop­ping the veg­eta­bles, that he remem­bered rata­touille was Elena's favorite.

    He picked up the phone to invite her over.

    • Anonymous

      That's so sweet! I like the farmer's mar­ket setting.

    • Lamia Slumbers

      Nice work! Lots of good imagery and a sat­is­fy­ing conclusion.

    • Eric

      Nice one! Everything fits into place and you're eager to fol­low his train of thought.

  • http://twitter.com/ChrisKaiser2 Chris Kaiser

    This is the first snow­fall since Gwen and I sep­a­rated. And if my stu­pid­ity were laser beams, the ground would be scorched.

    But as it is, cold, hard snow packs the hard earth, insu­lat­ing it from the rays of sun­shine that can seem­ingly cure all ills.

    As I turned from the bay win­dow to wan­der through my catacomb-like apart­ment, I stum­bled over a pile of New Yorker mag­a­zines. No pages have been dog-eared. I couldn't read with plea­sure any­more. Theater reviews dripped with exis­ten­tial angst: who cares about every­one else's failed love? Not me. Politics didn't excite me. President who? I don't know. I was stuck in my own solip­sis­tic belt­way, strapped by the claus­tro­pho­bic self­ish poli­cies I had enacted in my own mis­guided run for dic­ta­tor of the relationship.

    Gwen's smile seemed to be in every paint­ing hang­ing on my walls, even Munch's The Scream. In the morn­ing, before the bed­room would come into full res­o­lu­tion, Gwen's smile was caress­ing my ears, the nape of my neck, my chest, my being. Now… I hated to think where her smile was.

    I turned back to my walls, filled with copies of mas­ter­pieces. What was the sense? Picasso's blue period? Fuck Picasso! My blue period. Where is the art that fos­ters redemp­tion? I thumb through the vir­gin copies of the New Yorker. I laugh at one, then two, then three car­toons. It feels good to laugh. A man with sem­a­phore flags is in his bed­room. His wife says, "Flag dirty to me." I don't get it for a few min­utes, but then burst out laughing.

    I open the cur­tains. Turn on the lights. Turn up Mozart. I think about Gwen. It's never too late to admit one's mis­take. In fact, fail­ure is the essence of suc­cess. Think this through. Am I lonely or am I in love? The catacomb-like feel­ing lifts. My brain breathes. I sigh. What is it I really want?

    • Anonymous

      This is an inter­est­ing take, an exis­ten­tial­ist in love. I like the way his suf­fer­ing builds to an almost impos­si­bly com­pli­cated heart wrench­ing point, and then he sees a car­toon, and the story is over, he's back to busi­ness as usual, what is it I really want?

    • Lamia Slumbers

      I like this. You make a nice tran­si­tion from this character's self-absorption to the real­iza­tion he might actu­ally be miss­ing Gwen.

  • http://beckfarfromhome.blogspot.com/ Beck Gambill

    My own true life romance had those com­po­nents, it was clas­sic! I was actu­ally rather sur­prised that the friend­ship I'm writ­ing about in my novel also fol­lowed that lay­out. I wanted good con­flict and res­o­lu­tion between the friends, which actu­ally mir­rored real life events, but it was rel­a­tively unin­ten­tional or at least sub­con­sciously done.

    • http://joebunting.com Joe Bunting

      Exactly. The best sto­ries in real life also fol­low these rules. Isn't it weird when art and life col­lide? Thanks Beck :)

  • Lamia Slumbers

    (Decided to try this even though I never write romance.)

    He repli­cated her over and over again until she stood there in the hun­dreds. She flick­ered in and out of exis­tence; atoms form­ing, recom­bin­ing then fail­ing as the machine strug­gled and lagged try­ing to han­dle the load of so many com­mand strings. Julia waved, shrugged, gig­gled and smirked at him from every cor­ner of the lab.
    Her hun­dred voices spoke in a bro­ken, cas­cad­ing cho­rus: “Wow, this is awe­some Peter!”
    Damn her. If he’d never met her, his research would be fin­ished by now. Instead he had fol­lowed her to Venice, tried liv­ing her Bohemian lifestyle, and put his research on hold. It had been eight months of erratic behav­ior, tem­per tantrums, impetu­ous jour­neys with­out prepa­ra­tion and con­stant dis­or­der.
    The repli­ca­tor blue-screened and he aborted the pro­gram. One by one the Julia iter­a­tions shut down, van­ish­ing in flashes of thin blue light. The lab felt too quiet, too empty; ster­ile in its flat blue-white walls and pre­cisely arranged rows of instru­ments and desk­tops. The smell of ozone from the repli­ca­tor mixed with…
    “What is that?” he sniffed the air, stand­ing to move closer to the repli­ca­tor pad. “Chanel #5. I bought that for you,” he said aloud half-expecting a reply and sud­denly missing—no hor­ri­bly long­ing for—the way she’d enthu­si­as­ti­cally embrace him in her happy moments, wrap­ping her slen­der arms around his shoul­ders and kiss­ing him hard on the lips.

    • Anonymous

      I can't fig­ure out if she's real or if the just made her up on the com­puter. It's reminds me of a movie with holo­grams and screens going on and off. I feel sad for him at the end.

      • Lamia Slumbers

        Oh dear, guess Julia isn't as clearly defined as she should be. Thanks for your comment.

    • http://twitter.com/ChrisKaiser2 Chris Kaiser

      I like this, Lamia. We all han­dle failed love in our own way, and this made me think how a sci­en­tist might han­dle it. I love that he smells the per­fume. Leaves the door open for some intrigu­ing writ­ing ahead.

    • alba 17

      I like this. You really get a sense of their rela­tion­ship and how much he misses her in just a few words.

      • Anonymous

        Thanks I think I will work with them a lit­tle more.

  • Anonymous

    It had been hard to live right after Heather left, although Heath was glad she was gone. He hated see­ing her things in places that were now empty, like her red plas­tic alarm clock on the bed­side table, and her bevy of hats and scarfs on the hat­stand, and her books on the cof­fee table. Books almost hid­den by cof­fee cups, nap­kins, and plates full of crusts and crumbs. He’d hated look­ing at his clean house, and that both­ered him. Clean was good. Heather was bad.

    Now it would be dif­fer­ent though. He’d met a girl on the web, on dating.com. She would be the one for him, not messy, not lazy, not con­stantly tardy. He wasn’t a stick­ler, but he liked some kind of order for good­ness sake. He dressed for his first date with Isabelle think­ing of her pic­ture, round blue-eyes, a white blouse, and pearls. But Heather butted in at the last moment, like usual, with her dark straight brows and even darker angry eyes.

    The restau­rant was on the beach with a view of the ocean that wasn’t clut­tered with swim­mers, walk­ers, dogs or other signs of life. They were the only cou­ple din­ing early so it was easy to spot Isabelle when she came in. She waited by the host’s podium which was unoccupied.

    Heather wouldn’t have waited for the host,” thought Heath. She would have just walked over to the table and sat down, and maybe even have grabbed a menu from the podium while passing.

    Out of time.

    • Anonymous

      Oh no you all. I thought I was mak­ing up the name to a dat­ing site, like EHarmony or some­thing and it cre­ated a link to a not good spot, a like escort ser­vice. I'm so sorry if any­one hit on the link. I should have known bet­ter than to think I could use such a sim­ple name and it wouldn't be taken. I don't under­stand why it didn't show as a link when I first looked at it. Again sorry if any­one clicked. I hope nobody did.

    • http://unknownjim.com/ Jim Woods

      Marianne, I was sad you ran out of time. I hope you can expand on this for the con­test! I really enjoy the clean was good, Heather was bad part. I also enjoyed the com­par­i­son of the new girl to Heather with her "even darker angry eyes".

      I might rec­om­mend clean­ing up the books on the cof­fee table/books hid­den by cof­fee cups sen­tences as the two kind of get jum­bled on top of each other IMO.
      Maybe if you write more there had to of been some good aspects of Heather right? (I hope..haha)

      • Anonymous

        Thanks for your com­ments. I appre­ci­ate espe­cially the one about the run on sen­tence. I might work on this for the con­test, since what I'm doing is not shap­ing up at all. I think Heather may not be as messy as she sounds and Heath is a lit­tle bit overly par­tic­u­lar. I may write more and see what turns up on this. Thanks again so much.

    • http://joebunting.com Joe Bunting

      Yes! I love it. I love Heather and I love Heath's frus­tra­tion with her. I agree with Jim on the line, "even darker angry eyes." It's per­fect. Heath loves and hates Heather's dark­ness. He can't stand it but can't live with­out it. That's a per­fect scene for a love story, and these are great char­ac­ters, Marianne.

    • http://twitter.com/ChrisKaiser2 Chris Kaiser

      I like how you cre­ate the sense of Heather even in her absence. I like your descrip­tions, espe­cially the red plas­tic alarm clock. That is such a unique thing, it says a lot about Heather's per­son­al­ity with­out going into detail. And then, for me at least, the end­ing graf gives a bit more heft to Heather's per­son­al­ity than I had allowed with the red plas­tic alarm clock. She is a fully dimen­sional com­plex human being, and Heath had bet­ter get used to this fact and grow up if he wants to spend more time with her.

      • Anonymous

        Thank you Chris. I hardly ever use a male nar­ra­tor, so he is a challenge.

    • alba 17

      I like the con­trast between Heather and his new date, par­tic­u­larly this line: "But Heather butted in at the last moment, like usual, with her dark straight brows and even darker angry eyes. "

  • http://profiles.google.com/lialondon.g Lia London

    What about Romeo & Juliet? (I know…you said "almost".)

    • http://joebunting.com Joe Bunting

      Right. Romeo and Juliet cer­tainly had that moment of sep­a­ra­tion and ten­sion after Romeo killed Juliet's cousin and had to flee. But Romeo and Juliet (and Tristan and Isolt and Pyramus and Thisbee and all those guys) is less about HOW the lovers fell in love and more about what hap­pened AFTER they fell in love. Does that dis­tinc­tion make sense? This kind of love story cares more about the how, whereas R&J cares more about the after.